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4 Habits to quit this Ramadan

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Ramadan-Kareem

Everything changes during Ramadan; working hours, eating diets, our own habits and lifestyle. We have been seeing the same habits and mistakes over and over each Ramadan.

Here are 4 habits you need to stop doing during Ramadan:

Being Too Angry:

Fasting shouldn’t be an excuse for throwing a tantrum anywhere during the day. On the contrary, fasting is about controlling yourself, not letting your hunger and thirst take over your human morals. Threatening others that you will fast because of something you don’t please is getting childish. Fasting is controlling your hunger, thirst and attitude.

Eating too much:

Fasting is not easy, specially the last few hours before Iftar and you feel like you are about to die out of hunger. Extreme hunger can lead to eat way too much from Iftar to Sohour, not keeping in mind the health risks you put yourself through; never mind the fact that excessive eating goes against what the holy month is all about. Also, your body is not capable of saving up food or water for later, over eating and drinking won’t make it easier for you the next day.

Judging People:

Remember that you fast by your own choice; judging others because they don’t fast or they are from another religion who happen to eat or drink in the straight isn’t very mature. You fast for spiritual and religious reasons; shaming others isn’t spiritual nor religious.

Unproductivity:

Although we get less working hours during Ramadan, some people remain unproductive. Fasting was never an excuse to procrastinate during your day; being productive is actually a part of the ritual. Try to create a routine for yourself during the day to be as productive as you can; make time for work, prayers and TV shows.

Don’t use fasting as an excuse for anything negative; it is the holy month, so make the best of it.

Happy Ramadan

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Loosing Virginity Before Marriage

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Virginity is a very sensitive topic in our society, and yes there are many of not virgin girls around us. Considering virginity as a taboo is not accepted anymore we have to open up and speak the truth without denying what we have. We interviewed 4 different girls from different backgrounds and age the same questions and here are the answers.

Do you regret losing your virginity before marriage?

How was your first night together?

Does the guy appreciate it or run away from you?

Would you do it again if you have the choice?

Are you afraid from the society?

What would you do if you marry another guy?

N.E , 36 years old, English Teacher 

Do You Regret Losing Your Virginity before Marriage?

Not at all

How was your first night together?

Dreamy, he was so tender and gentle. We were doing everything out of love. He cared for my pain so much. He turned up the candles light and the night was just perfect

Does the guy appreciate it or run away from you?

He appreciated it so much, and it was a milestone in our relationship. The relation become more stronger and serious with us

Would you do it again if you have the choice?

Definetly yes, I regret the time I took to decide to do it because definitely it worth it

Are you afraid from the society?

No one has the right to interfere in this very personal issue specially in this sick minded society.

What would you do if you marry another guy?

I will tell him the truth, and for him to accept it or not

F.S. 25 years old Photographer

Do You Regret Losing Your Virginity before Marriage?

No

How was your first night together?

it was not night, it was mid of the day. We didn’t plan for it, we started to make out and then it happened. It was nice and I didn’t freak out because I really wanted him that time.

Does the guy appreciate it or run away from you?

He was excited about it because we can have sex whenever he wants and our sexual chemistry was really good together. We broke up 2 years later not because of this, we are totally two different characters and we have got enough from our differences.

Would you do it again if you have the choice?

Yes, life is easier that way. And now I am allowed to know the relationship for real not waiting to get married to discover whether we are good sexually together or not.

Are you afraid from the society?

F**K them, no one is living my life

What would you do if you marry another guy?

Definitely I will marry another guy because we broke up and I don’t think that there is any problem in that. I will not get married to a guy without sleeping with him in order to make sure that we are matching and satisfying each other. Sex makes the relation stronger and you know the person on another level. Why would I take the risk of marrying someone I don’t know whether we are good sexually or not?? 

30 years old, marketer 

Do You Regret Losing Your Virginity before Marriage?

No

How was your first night together?

Bullshit, it was very painful and we didn’t know what we should do and how it goes.

We were doing it just to finish it and get the real sexual life after it. And actually this is what happened we didn’t enjoy it at the beginning but after a while we started to enjoy our sexual life so much and realized that we are perfect match sexually.

Does the guy appreciate it or run away from you?

He appreciated it and it gives him the feeling that “she is mine”. The concept of being the first one and the one I decided to give up my virginity for, makes us more intimate than anything else.

Would you do it again if you have the choice?

Yes but with the same guy maybe I wanted the situation to be different but not him

Are you afraid from the society?

no I don’t care what they think about me, and they will not know as well

What would you do if you marry another guy?

I will tell him the truth

22 years old, student 

Do You Regret Losing Your Virginity before Marriage?

no

How was your first night together?

not fun but I wanted to do it long time before that to set myself free and experience everything till the end

Does the guy appreciate it or run away from you?

Run away but I don’t care our sexual life was really bad together and I can experience it with someone else

Would you do it again if you have the choice?

Yes yes

Are you afraid from the society?

No, who cares

What would you do if you marry another guy?

I don’t want to get married now at all, but if one day I do he would know because definitely I will have sex with him before marriage and if he doesn’t accept it then we are two different mentalities and cannot be together, it’s take it or leave it.

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Reasons Why You Should Never Compare Yourself To Others

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Do you often find that you’re comparing yourself to others? Perhaps to a family member, a close friend, or someone famous on social media? If the answer is yes, then welcome to the club. The sad truth is that it’s the reality for too many of us.

Why do nobody ever accept their situations in life? When you listen to your friend who’s dating/married a guy about how complicated and annoying he is, you start thinking about your life and always saying, “Why can’t I find someone, yet? I want to find my own significant other. I want to settle in as she settles in.”

What’s even funnier, the fact is while you’re listening to their problems, your friend is thinking how amazing single life is and how you don’t worry about these kind of problems.

Social comparison starts at a very early age. Children discover very quickly that not everyone lives the same life or has the same opportunity as them. They see how some friends have more toys or better clothes, or live in nicer houses. As these children grow older and become teenagers, the comparing doesn’t stop. It often intensifies and turns into negative self-talk. Thoughts like “I’m not good enough,” “I can’t do anything right,” or “I’ll never make it” slowly start creeping into their minds. This kind of gloomy thinking causes them to develop anxiety and depression-like impulses, which may continue well into their adulthood years

It’s really sick that people actually think each person is living a better life than their own, seriously, people go through so much but they just don’t speak about it.

Why don’t we just appreciate what we have for once and stop looking at other people’s lives and instead, focus on our own life?

Comparison actually is what actually takes away happiness. You can never feel happy when you always feel like there’s something that you don’t have, that you lack something. Comparing yourself to others only makes your life difficult and brings you misery and pain. Instead, try using others as motivation to work harder and do better.

Comparison will actually sabotage your progress. It’ll drain your energy and happiness and instead of actually getting worked done, you’ll stay hours complaining about other people’s achievements. If you spend your days comparing yourself to other people’s achievements, you’ll never get anything accomplished. You must invest all your energy into pursuing your own dreams and goals. Don’t waste your precious time for something that’ll do you nothing but drain you.

You can’t physically change who you are. You are you. So, complaining about not having the perfect body or not having the perfect clear skin won’t do you any good. You’ll always be you. You’ll never be anyone else. And although it might be hard to believe for some of us, this is actually a good thing. As Jen Sincero says:

There will never be anyone exactly like you. You were given special gifts and talents to share with the world, and even though everybody has special gifts and talents, nobody will use theirs quite the same way you do. — Jen Sincero

No one has a perfect life. Although you might think that a lot of people are leading an amazing life with no down sides, know that this isn’t true. People are pretty good actors. You may see an Instagram picture of a couple looking so in love while in fact, they don’t speak to each other, they don’t even communicate. People like showing off that they’re living the best days of their lives while in fact, they’re the saddest people you could actually know. Don’t ever judge someone by how much followers, likes, comments or pictures they have. Judge them by what they actually have in their life. Every single person on this Earth experiences problems and challenges throughout their lives. No one is exempt from this. Some people are just better at keeping it together, at least on the outside. So next time you compare yourself to your friend or neighbor, remember that you probably do not know every detail about their life.

There will always be someone better than you in something. And you will always always be better than someone in something. It’s life. We complete one another. So the sooner you accept it, the happier you’ll be. Someone getting a better grade than you in a subject isn’t the end of the world; you’re doing your best and you’ll definitely do better than them in another subject. We all have different strengths and weaknesses. There will always be someone better than you at one point in your life. At some point in your life, someone will beat you to whatever it is you’re after. You can’t always win at everything in life. All you have to do is work hard and try your best, and whatever is meant to be will fall into place for you at the right moment. Just try your hardest, you can do it!

Start appreciating your life and everything you have because some people actually wish for half as much as you have!

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Ten Rules For Enjoying The Rollercoaster Ride Known As “Life”!

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We all know that life is pretty tough and we all deal with things that we’re not really comfortable talking about so instead, we just try to enjoy the moment and put on a fake smile. But no, not anymore! With these ten partially easy rules of life that I’ll present to you right now might change your whole perspective! Try following these steps, may I present you, the ten rules of living your life peacefully!

  1. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present: Make peace with everybody you’re on bad terms with, even if you weren’t the one causing trouble. However, you don’t have to rebuild a relationship with everyone you have forgiven, only the people who actually deserve it. You’ll never know how strong you actually are until you had to forgive someone who wasn’t sorry, and accept an apology you have never received.
  2. What others think of you is none of your business: Whether you do good or you do bad, dress to impress or just lazily wear anything or even don’t go out or or go out too much, people always tend to find a way or an excuse to judge you on. You’ll never win against this sick society. So, preferably, I think you should just do whatever you want unless you’re not hurting anyone else. Give no damns about people’s opinion about you, what’s important is what you think of yourself.
  3. Time heals almost everything, give it time: Patience is key to almost everything. If you’re feeling devastated now then you won’t feel that a month or even a few weeks from now. You’ll start forgiving and forgetting. Everything in the world takes time, you just got to wait. If you keep on rushing things, nothing will work out. Keep on waiting, there’s nothing to rush for.
  4. Don’t compare your life to others and don’t judge them. You have no idea what their journey is about: A flower doesn’t think of competing to the flower next to it, it just blooms. So, don’t compare yourself to others, that’s a battle you’ll never win. Beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself.
  5. Stop thinking too much, it’s alright not to know the answers. They will come to you when you least expect it: Stop worrying too much, it’s like carrying an umbrella on a sunny day afraid it’ll rain. Don’t think too much, just let it be.
  6. No one is in charge of your happiness, except you: No one is in control of your happiness but you; therefore, you have the power to change anything about yourself or your life that you want to change. You should make yourself happy by surrounding yourself with people that actually deserve you in their lives.
  7. If it’s meant to be, it’ll be: You can’t force destiny to do what you want, because what’s written in your destiny is what will happen. It’s your fate and you have no hands to change that. You can keep trying and trying to achieve what you really want but if everything messes up each time you try, then it’s just not meant to be or it is meant to be but it’s not the right time yet.
  8. Surround yourself with people who talk about visions and ideas. Not people: Surround yourself with people who are ambitious and people who actually motivate you to work harder on yourself. People who teach you how to love yourself, how to smile a little more and laugh a little louder.
  9. Positivity is key: Always see the good in every bad situation. Always be positive and try spreading positive vibes around you. Start helping others, try joining community services so you could help others and make them smile and that’s a way of achieving true happiness in your life by making others happy.
  10. Smile, you don’t own all the problems in the world: Keep smiling because life is a beautiful and underestimated art and there’s so much to smile about. Always smile; life isn’t full of reasons to smile, but your smile itself is a reason for others to smile too. 🙂
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